
https://www.cnn.com/2022/02/18/health/fentanyl-fatal-overdoses-middle-schoolers/index.html
Drugs have been around for what, thousands of years? Do any parents, law enforcement, or government REALLY think that they can actually win the “War on Drugs”? Believe me when I say that if there was a way to actually “win”, I’d be all for it. It breaks my heart each and every time to hear about another kid who died while experimenting with drugs.
It can be this kid, who was a Boy Scout, 14 years old, played with Lego’s, and still slept with a stuffed animal, who looks as innocent as anything, and could be your kid. But it can also be the down and out kid, same age, runaway and now homeless, or homeless for another reason, who is just trying to make the pain of life go away.
I am super glad that this boy DID reach out to his parents for help. That was a major stepping stone for anyone who knows they have an addiction problem. I’m also super glad that his parents tried to take action. I’m just extremely sorry that the action wasn’t involved enough, or fast enough. With this fentenal game going on, you have to be fast and hard or what happened to Alex could happen to your kid.
I don’t have any kids, but I do have a 14 year old brother. He is coming over tomorrow to help start putting his room together in the new house now that the bedroom set arrived. Thank God the delivery guys were pretty burly men, those boxes were Heavy! But at some point I’m going to have a sit down with him to ask if he has had any drug use, or been asked to. We all say that we have good kids, and they would never do that, but we really don’t know either.
It doesn’t sound like Alex’s parents had any clue that they’re innocent looking boy was toying with drugs until he told them. I think even if you pay attention to your kids, looking for those changes in mood, friends, schoolwork, sports, most can be missed. Look at Alex again, though the story is short, it doesn’t sound like he had any changes like that. Yet he was involved. To a tragic end.
So how do you stop the drug use? I don’t know, I wish I did. Really, I guess, is to find out why they want to take the drugs in the first place, and then do what ever we can to get them there naturally. Are they feeling down because their parents are fighting? Are they down because they just lost someone important in their lives? Are they struggling with classes at school? Are they being bullied at school? We need to find a way to keep an eye on these answers without them feeling like we are intruding on their lives. The standard answer is not going to go over well with them.
For now, from me, in my opinion, do what you can to be an integral part of their lives. Let them know that they can come to you for anything. At least Alex’s parents taught him well on that part. Give your kids a hug and a kiss, don’t just dismiss them. It’s not much, but hopefully will be enough.






